Elite Psychotherapy for High-Achieving Professionals

Authentic First.
Successful Always.

For 40 years, I have helped high-achievers break the cycle of exhaustion and reclaim their nervous systems. Specializing in high-stakes diagnostic mapping for men and clinical transformation for leaders who cannot afford to lose their edge.

Currently Accepting New Clients  ·  6 Openings Per Month
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40+
Years Clinical
Experience
PhD
Licensed Marriage
& Family Therapist
MDRT
Multidimensional
Relational Therapy
The Reality

Success on the outside.
Empty on the inside.

You have built a life most people dream of. You have mastered your industry, hit your KPIs, and secured the accolades. But lately, the cost of that success has become unsustainable.

  • You are waking up at 2 AM with a racing heart and a mental triage list.
  • You are relying on tactical stress, or the evening glass of wine, just to keep the engine running.
  • You are physically present at home, but emotionally a ghost to your family.
"Most high-performers try to fix the wrong thing. They seek more coaching or more vacations. But you do not need a strategy change. You need a system rewire."
Robert B. Jaffe, PhD, LMFT
The Method

Multi-Dimensional
Relational Therapy

Developed in partnership with Dr. Mitra Rashidian, the MDRT model is a comprehensive roadmap for those ready to move from ego-functioning to Authentic Intimacy. It is a clinical framework designed to help you see into yourself so you can be truly seen by others.

We map your experience across six critical dimensions to identify where your authentic self has been silenced.

01
Ego Functioning and Defences
Identity
Moving beyond the ego-self that needs to be right at the cost of being loved.
02
Spiritual Transcendence
Essence
Accessing your essence to create high self-worth and genuine connection.
03
Sexuality
Pleasure
Appreciating sexual differences and reclaiming pleasure as a dimension of health.
04
Attachment and Childhood Development
Origin
Understanding how past beliefs about safety and love impact your current connections.
05
Trauma and the Loss of the Authentic Self
Shadow
Reclaiming the parts of you hidden in the shadow-self so you can show up fully.
06
Communication
Connection
Replacing judgment with curiosity and empathy to create genuine intimacy.
By understanding all six dimensions, we eliminate power struggles and co-dependence, allowing you to show your authentic self to the world and your partner. Developed by Dr. Robert B. Jaffe, PhD, LMFT and Dr. Mitra Rashidian, PhD, LMFT, CST.
Precision Diagnostics and Transformation

Same Quality. Choose Your Entry Point.

Current Priority Focus

The High-Achieving Man's Diagnostic Suite

Move beyond symptoms and map the 8 dimensions of your nervous system. This is the prerequisite for our high-intensity clinical work.

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Individual and Couples

Individual and Couples Therapy

Deep, targeted work for leaders, partners, and high-achieving women ready for a fundamental shift in their experience of success.

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Group Programs

Transformational Group Programs

12-week intensive cohorts for professionals. Peer accountability meets clinical depth in a curated, high-level environment.

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40 Years. One Commitment.

It is possible to be both highly successful and deeply at peace.

I am not an intern or a generalist. Alongside my partner, Dr. Mitra Rashidian, I have spent four decades developing the MDRT Model to serve those who carry the weight of high-stakes responsibility.

Let us build the foundation to make it happen.

PhD  ·  LMFT #15913  ·  Licensed in California since 1984  ·  Encino, CA
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Why This Work Is Different
Not talk therapy alone. Nervous system healing through clinical hypnotherapy, trauma-informed care, and guided transformation.
Precision diagnostic mapping before any clinical work begins. You will know exactly what is driving your patterns before we attempt to change them.
A proprietary six-dimension model developed over 40 years. Not a generic framework applied to every client.